tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7449503.post7252372425899836462..comments2024-03-22T03:35:27.752-04:00Comments on Written Inc.: 5 years on...carmilevyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00360045114379957605noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7449503.post-66546685521524222522014-09-24T21:50:22.979-04:002014-09-24T21:50:22.979-04:00People grieve at their own speed; people heal at t...People grieve at their own speed; people heal at their own speed. And often, when they think they've healed, a wisp of a memory comes back and drops them to their knees. You never know how and when or why you're going to "heal," and you never know when you're going to unheal. It's the truly sucky part of being alive...Thumperhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02154314376352066709noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7449503.post-18237680838699917642014-09-23T14:27:26.001-04:002014-09-23T14:27:26.001-04:00Agreed, Carmi. I lost my Dad the week of Christmas...Agreed, Carmi. I lost my Dad the week of Christmas and that was in 2000. People often mean well when they begin with that worn out line, "If there's anything I can do...". I prefer to say, "Tell me what you and your family need. If I can't deliver, I'll find help and get it done". That said, nothing fills the void. But you are in my thoughts and prayers today, my friend. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16539850495318868267noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7449503.post-40551426746872581382014-09-23T12:40:34.108-04:002014-09-23T12:40:34.108-04:00Life is always different after you lose a parent. ...Life is always different after you lose a parent. I lost my mother last December. I can't go to her for comfort, advice or love anymore . But I can sit and remember get comfort from those memories, remember advice so fondly given and love her within your heart. Michèle et Jean-Claudehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04534809585529626346noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7449503.post-41822285591910983712014-09-23T12:39:29.934-04:002014-09-23T12:39:29.934-04:00I completely feel the loss and painful empty feeli...I completely feel the loss and painful empty feelings that you have expressed here today. The depths of your thoughts and all of our loved ones lives within each of our losses, and the only words of wisdom? Or just a thought to ease ones woes. For me, at least, these anniversaries of loss and the especially upon their birthday we would have celebrated, those are the weakest moments that bring me to recall and live out not the loss but the gifts of memories they once etched within my heart to live on forever.21 Witshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00071361755673253230noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7449503.post-28604123372554952742014-09-23T07:53:23.897-04:002014-09-23T07:53:23.897-04:00You are right- time does not heal all wounds... al...You are right- time does not heal all wounds... all it does is gives us time to get use to the loss as well as a way to try to understand... the losses I have had, I have learned a lot about myself as well as how the loss has taken effect on others.Kalei's Best Friendhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12331539743751163269noreply@blogger.com