Thursday, August 05, 2021

Eight years on...

Where life took a turn
Middlesex Centre, ON
August 2021
This photo originally shared on Instagram


This is the intersection of Wonderland and Nine Mile roads, and this is where my life took a serious tangent 8 years ago today.

Nine Mile stretches to the east to frame left, while Wonderland heads south to the right. To the right of the street sign lies the spot where, as I turned for home on my bike, I encountered an impassable construction zone.

As I looked over my left shoulder to turn back, I accidentally tore my left carotid artery.

The sudden-onset headache was so severe that I stopped on the eastbound shoulder to text my wife, grab some water, and try to regroup. I was hot, in pain, and ticked at the prospect of a long ride home.

I was seeing floaters by the time I got home, but still thought it was just a lousy headache. I showered, tried to nap, and a couple of hours later tried to make chicken on the BBQ out back.

That's when I collapsed from an ischemic stroke after clots from the injury to my artery broke free and went into my brain.

As I awoke to my wife talking to me, I realized I couldn't speak, and my right side was paralyzed. I was locked in, unable to respond in anything more than monosyllables. Yet I totally understood what was going on.

I'm here today thanks to miracle-working docs and nurses and a dear, brilliant neurologist friend who dropped everything to take on my case. Not a moment goes by that I don't reflect on that day, at this intersection.

I'm incredibly lucky, and I'll often get on the bike and ride past here to remind myself of that.

And as much as I wish I didn't have to live with the residual effects of this single motion - I feel a low-level dizziness, like I'm perpetually tipsy, and my balance disqualifies me from the Olympic gymnastics trials - I realize, perversely, that it made me a better person.

Because before this happened, I'm not sure I was cherishing life and my family as much as I should have been. Every moment since, however, has been a very different story.

Sometimes all it takes is a small change in direction.

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Related:
So, about that stroke - August 2014
More stroke stuff... - August 2014
Stroke survivor shares his story, London Free Press, Aug 14, 2014
Coming up on Canada AM - Lookahead to February 2015 interview
Winding down the day that was - February 2015 - incl link to Canada AM/Heart/Stroke Month segment
Two years on... - August 2015
Three bonus years - August 2016
Four years later - August 2017
Five years on - August 2018
Seven years on, August 2020

1 comment:

Tabor said...

8 years ago. Thank God that passed with such a successful outcome.